我们都是极其独立的人。
像一颗野草的种子被人到一个田地里就可以恣意生长。
然而也是极为缺失安全感。
因此不知足的发奋图强。
一位独立的生活方式带来了能够互相体谅的气场。
能够融合在一起。但也不会太靠近。
不会太靠近反而更能分享很多话题。
是近亦是远。
这与那些在没有飘荡过的种子不同。
那些种子开着更加自我的花。
在野地里长大的种子并非不像被收养被植入花园。
但哪怕被收养也有不安全的感觉。
怕发现那片花园远不如自己想象的美好。
发现野趣更加让人留连。

当你已被家养。当我还在野外迎风荡漾。

A recent research published by Nielsen about Lifestyle&Internet in China reveals that 45 millions Chinese people go every week on the Internet to get lifestyle, fashion and female related content.

This amazing number demonstrates that:

-         Internet is crucial for all the industries linked to Lifestyle (from fashion to car)

-         Lifestyle online is about content and articles and not only advertising.

Customers will check online articles and opinions before making a purchase decision. An online advertisement or a even acorporate website is sometimes less powerful compared to a good product review from a famous blogger.On the Internet human voices are more trustul.PR experts are the best people to deal with contents and influencers more than advertiser or digital marketers.To think "new media" while working on a communication/PR plan.

How many roads must a man walk down
Before they call him a man
How many seas must a white dove sail
Before she sleeps in the sand
How many times must the cannon balls fly
Before they're forever banned
The answer, my friend, is blowing in the wind
The answer is blowing in the wind

How many years must a mountain exist
Before it is washed to the sea
How many years can some people exist
Before they're allowed to be free
How many times can a man turn his head
And pretend that he just doesn't see
The answer, my friend, is blowing in the wind
The answer is blowing in the wind

How many times must a man look up
Before he can see the sky
How many ears must one man have
Before he can hear people cry
How many deaths will it take
'Till he knows that too many people have died
The answer, my friend, is blowing in the wind
The answer is blowing in the wind



She will forgive u someday.

在经历8个月的18小时工作制之后，我终于决定，全心全意放弃这份工作。让我自己活过来。让我自己值得下一段也许更加精彩也许不那么精彩的人生。

8个月我经历了什么？

丧失自我。吵架象个泼妇。强硬。被人称做高调。增肥。不运动。博客死亡。起床后的第一个动作是在电脑前检查邮件。然后不刷牙不洗脸工作5个小时后感觉到饿和胃疼。被人指着鼻子骂。复杂的办公室斗争。自以为是的男人。打一下揉一下。终于崩溃。

如同死去。然后迷恋上网购。因为仿佛患上幽闭症。不愿出门不愿说话不愿见人。思维枯竭。做不出美丽繁复的首饰。

8个月我懂得了什么？

用人不疑，疑人不用。也是爱人不疑，疑人不爱。

永远不要太热情。热脸贴不上冷屁股。

坚持自我不容易，特别是在平庸的环境中。不能选择轻易妥协。但该学会圆润地生活。

不应该束缚自己。人生苦短，又如此宽阔。

又不能放任自己。该有颗感恩而明了的心。

活出自我多么不易。赢得尊重多么不易。做到问心无愧多么不易。

如果我能有超能力
我希望我可以分身有术
把我分成两个我
一个我在你需要的时候出现
一个我在你不需要的时候陪伴我；
一个过上忘记所有悲伤的快乐生活
一个去注视悲伤的你被掩盖的所有悲伤